"To live is Christ, To die is gain." - Phillippians 1:21
"For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will find it.”- Matthew 16:25

Not to run away from it, nor desensitise by using other means.
Not to deliberately forget and pretend it never happened.
Not to devalue its worth but to recognise the beauty and glory of it.
Not to find excuses to justify its end,
But to submit it to christ.

to die to our desires, is perfect submission, perfect oneness with Christ.
there, shall no more questions be asked, no more worries about tomorrow, and no more regrets about yesterday.
it doesnt matter, HE knows.