testing and growth

photos will be uploaded real soon.. but for now, ive got a less funky, more reflective post to blog.

i went through this many years ago in secondary school..someone, whom will always remain as a special friend to me. haha i dunno if she knows its her im talking about..but yeah, i hope you do. and i know ud understand..
those were the days.. so innocent. and a little silly. but defnitely real.

so much so, that i can almost sense a repeat of history again. just a little different this time.

relationships between people.friends.
someone else reminded me tonight that communication is very important in a relationship. (goodness i didnt even think this applied till i blog at this very moment! coincidences???)
yes indeed it is..
so is trust, mutual respect, and i still believe above all, is love.

how come then, is love so easily tainted by things of this world? of pride maybe... of selfish desires and needs..

im not speaking as a victim of anything..
or pointing towards anyone.

im just asking myself about things in general.
love of others. My own love to friends i perceive to give out..
is it that pure? is it genuine? is it impartial?
such that there is no justifiabke reason for others to doubt.

i still believe, the good intentions but perhaps insensitive mannerism.
you can only feel hurt when you have loved right...